After a cremation
2 Islington and St Pancras Cemetery Office contact details: W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 020 7527 8300
Contents Burying Ashes Page 6 Garden of Remembrance Page 8 Living memorials (e.g. rose trees) Page 10 Dedicated cremated remains graves Page 11 Dedications (e.g. plaques, benches, vases) Page 12 Book of Remembrance Page 13 Personal keepsakes (e.g. jewellery, glass design) Page 15 Holding and collecting ashes Page 17 Trent Park Cemetery Page 18 Hampstead Cemetery Page 19 Useful contacts Page 20 How to find us Page 21 Delivered by ico is a trading company wholly-owned by Islington Council. 3
Your choice If you have decided to have your loved one s remains cremated, there is a choice to be made as to where you would like their final resting place to be. It is a personal choice that requires careful consideration. You may choose a resting place at one of our three beautiful locations Islington and St Pancras Cemetery, Hampstead Cemetery or Trent Park Cemetery or take them home, or somewhere personal to you. There are also a number of different memorials to choose from from the more traditional rose bush, or plaque, to something a little bit different. This brochure is here to guide you through all the options available so you can find a suitable tribute and perfect resting place for the ashes. If you are unsure of anything our friendly team are also on hand to answer any queries that you may have. 4 Islington and St Pancras Cemetery Office contact details: W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 020 7527 8300
Letting us know your decision You should take your time to consider and discuss the most suitable option. Once you have made a decision on what to do with the ashes you will need to let us know. It will need to be submitted by the person who applied for the cremation at the funeral directors, even if they discuss it with others or consider wishes that were left behind in a will. Please submit this decision in writing by completing the form enclosed within this brochure. 5
Burying ashes Burying ashes is where the ashes are placed within the ground. They can either be buried loose or within a container. This is also known as a committal or an interment. There are lots of options for burial within Islington and Camden s Cemetery grounds. Attending the burial You can choose to be present during the burial of the remains and to have a short service if you like. You an also arrange for a minister to attend should you prefer a religious service. During this time you are free to say anything you like and only when you are ready will the remains be placed within the ground. Remains are placed loose at certain positions and may not be recoverable. The staff at the cemetery can advise which areas this will apply to. Our Garden of Remembrance in Islington and St Pancras Cemetery offers various memorial options. Some will have memorials already in place, while others allow for bespoke memorials to be purchased and installed. We also have areas within both Islington and St Pancras and Trent Park Cemeteries where remains can be scattered. We will keep a record of the area, however the position would remain unmarked. You have the option to bury the ashes in an existing position or privately owned grave space if a family member or close friend is buried there. 6 If you would like to request this you will need to book an appointment through our main office at Islington and St Pancras Cemetery. If you would like a minister to attend then you will need to arrange it directly with them. If you have elected not to be present during the burial, the same process will apply although the appointment will be booked by the cemetery office on your behalf. What you should consider There are legal considerations when burying remains. The main one is once buried they cannot be removed without a special licence which is granted by the government. If the remains are buried loose, unfortunately they will not be recoverable at all. Islington and St Pancras Cemetery Office contact details: W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 020 7527 8300
Burying ashes in a cremated remains plot Cremated remains plots are small graves where ashes can be buried.some plots offer the ability to purchase a bespoke memorial stone and others will have one in place already. Our cremated remains graves allow for a minimum of two sets of cremated remains and a maximum of four, depending on the type of grave selected. Finding the right option Our staff can talk you through the options and advise you which option would be most suitable for your requirements. At Islington and St Pancras Cemetery you can arrange an appointment to view the grave space options that are available to you. During this appointment a member of the team will accompany you and answer any questions you may have. This is known as a selection appointment and can be booked by contacting the main cemetery office. Burying ashes in an existing grave If you would like to bury ashes within an existing grave you will need to obtain the consent of the grave owner. There is a charge for this. 7
Garden of Remembrance Islington and St Pancras Cemetery has a peaceful garden area dedicated to remembering those who have died. There are a variety of memorial options, from beautiful rose bushes and trees, to benches and plaques. In our experience we find that families find comfort in having a particular place to visit. You should not rush this decision and there is no time limit for choosing the perfect memorial or on the number of memorials you can purchase. 8 You can choose to have a memorial in the cemetery, even if the cremation did not take place at Islington Crematorium. Islington and St Pancras Cemetery Office contact details: W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 020 7527 8300
The majority of our memorials are available for immediate purchase and you can choose from various length of times to lease the memorial for. When the lease expires you will be given the option to extend the dedication. If you decide not to then the positon will become available to another family. There are a range of plaque and memorial stones to select from. Contact the main office for details of sizes and any terms and conditions for your chosen memorial. The gardens also offer a peaceful area where remains can be scattered. This is free of charge to those whose service took place at Islington Crematorium, however others can choose to do this for a small fee. We will record the position of the scattering, however this is purposely kept clear and open so we are unable to mark the area or position any memorials here. 9
Living memorials Rose tree and rose bush memorials You can choose to bury ashes loose (not in a container) under a charming rose tree or bush within the Garden of Remembrance. You can choose from a five or ten year lease and you will have the option to renew when this expires. You can choose to place a granite, aluminium or perplex plaque with a motif or inscription of your choice at the rose. If you wish, you may also have a small stone memorial which our staff can offer advice and guide you through the process of ordering. 10 Islington and St Pancras Cemetery Office contact details: W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 020 7527 8300
Dedicated cremated remains graves Ash plots We can bury up to four sets of ashes and they can be marked by either a small headstone or aluminium plaque that we will provide. We can also arrange to get this inscribed for you. They are initially leased for a period of 30 years however this can be extended. Remains will be placed loose within the ground at these positions. Sanctums These are blue pearl granite sanctums where ashes can be placed inside, above ground and the front panel can be engraved. They can take up to two sets of ashes and are initially leased for a period of 30 years, however are renewable. Mini graves These are black granite mini graves where ashes can be placed underneath a tablet and the headstone can be engraved. There is space for two sets of cremated remains, using a casket supplied by the cemetery. They are initially leased for a period of 30 years, however are renewable. Memorial vases and tablets Each vase block is made from natural material quarried and perfectly cast to give a lasting base for your memorial tablet. The tablet is made out of polished granite with space for approximately 70 letters. Flowers can be placed in your own personal vase. Here cremated remains are buried loose (not in a container) in the earth behind the memorial. You can lease this attractive memorial for an initial ten year lease, which can be renewed. 11
Dedications Dedication plaques Memorial benches For a lasting tribute you can dedicate a bench in memory of a loved one. These are made of solid teak, a very durable wood that will last for years. You can also choose to incorporate a dedication plaque or hand carved inscription of your choice. The cemetery has reserved spaces specifically for the placement of benches in the cemeteries. Please speak to a member of staff who will be happy to take you through your options. 12 The cemetery offers three main styles of memorial plaques made from perspex, aluminium or granite. Each plaque can be inscribed with words of your choice and can be placed within the Garden of Remembrance. They can also be used to mark the final resting place of a loved one elsewhere within the cemetery. Islington and St Pancras Cemetery Office contact details: W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 020 7527 8300
Book of Remembrance Create a unique and personal memorial by adding a message, emblem or quote inscribed by a highly skilled artist in the Book of Remembrance, located inside the Crematorium Chapel. The cost of each inscription is based on the number of lines and is a one off charge. With entries of five or more lines, space is available to include a hand painted miniature work of art. 13
Miniature Book of Remembrance This gold cover and vinyl bound miniature book has been designed to resemble the original Book of Remembrance. It is supplied in a protective box for you to take home. The original inscription is copied by hand into this book and further entries can be added at any time. The folded memorial card For a simpler option you can choose the folded memorial card, which has also been designed to resemble the Book of Remembrance and includes a reproduction of your memorial entry inscribed by hand. Leather wall panels These luxury dark blue Levant Morocco leather panels have a hand tooled inscription and are finished in 23 carat gold leaf. There is space for three lines of inscription with a maximum of 60-70 letters. They are placed on display in the Book of Remembrance room at the Crematorium Chapel for an initial period of five years which is renewable. 14 Islington and St Pancras Cemetery Office contact details: W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 020 7527 8300
Personal keepsakes If you wanted to keep some of the ashes to transform into a personal keepsake we have many options available. Whether you wanted something more traditional or are looking for something a little different to honour your loved one, we can help you find the most fitting tribute. Some of the options available are set out below, but we are always expanding our range so for all the options see the materials enclosed at the back of this brochure or speak to one of the team. Ashes into Glass Tokens Ashes into Glass allows for a small portion of remains to be incorporated into beautiful handcrafted crystal glass. Each unique piece is handcrafted to order in their workshop and can be personalised. We can arrange for a small portion of the ashes to be separated and kept and you can choose from a wide variety of token or smaller urns to place these in. 15
Jewellery We have a selection of stunning jewellery in which you can place a small amount of ashes. This allows for a discreet way of keeping a loved one close. Designs vary to include gold or silver and include designs for both men and women. Some options can be customised to include longer chains and colour choices. The staff at the cemetery can show you examples of the items and how they work and a small selection of these can be found in the literature that is included in the rear of this brochure. Ash Glass Design Ash Glass Design creates unique pieces of art and jewellery from a portion of the ashes. Each piece is handmade to order and can be personalised with a design and colour of your choice to create truly unique pieces that you can treasure forever. Celebratory bottles A portrait design of a loved one can be hand crafted onto a bottle as an expression of the celebration of their life. Alice Mara Alice Mara is an artist that specialises in taking personal pictures and transforming them into art. Alice creates completely unique, beautiful urns using this personalised approach. Commissions for bespoke pieces are also possible. 16 Islington and St Pancras Cemetery Office contact details: W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 020 7527 8300
Holding and collecting the ashes We understand that making a decision is difficult and so we can hold the remains for a month following the service while you decide. Storing the remains for longer periods may incur a fee - please contact us for details. Collecting the remains You have the option to collect the remains from the cemetery if you would like to bury them elsewhere or simply keep them at home. You can choose to have the remains transferred to a choice of urns that you can purchase from us in varying designs and materials, or have them supplied in our standard ash container. This will be labelled with details of the deceased and all urns will be accompanied by a certificate of cremation. You will find details of the type of urns available in the back of this brochure. Please contact us to discuss your requirements. If you decide to keep the remains at home we recommend leaving clear instructions for the future and storing the certificate of cremation in a safe place. This will be needed if a decision is made later to bury them. 17
Trent Park Cemetery Rose tree Memorial bench You can choose to bury ashes loose (not in a container) under a charming rose tree or bush within the grounds of Trent Park Cemetery. You can choose to place a granite, aluminium or perplex plaque inscribed with the details of the deceased. The rose trees are offered with an initial ten year period, which is renewable. For a lasting tribute you can dedicate a bench in memory of a loved one. These are made of solid teak, a very durable wood that will last for years. You can also choose to incorporate a dedication plaque or hand carved inscription of your choice. The cemetery has reserved spaces specifically for the placement of benches in the cemeteries. Please speak to a member of staff who will be happy to take you through your options. Sanctums These are grey granite sanctums where ashes can be placed inside, above ground and the front panel can be engraved with an inscription of your choice. It is also possible to have emblems, flowers or motifs engraved on the tablet. They can take up to two sets of ashes and are initially leased for a period of 30 years, however are renewable. Cremated Remains Terrace of Remembrance The Terrace of Remembrance offers an alternative style of cremated remains grave. Positions are available to lease on an initial ten-year basis which can be renewed. Remains are placed loose in the position and a dedication plaque or tablet inscribed with your choice of wording and emblems can be placed to mark the position. 18 Islington and St Pancras Cemetery Office contact details: W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 020 7527 8300
Hampstead Cemetery Hampstead Cemetery is situated in on Fortune Green Road in West Hampstead. It features a beautiful, quiet garden with sanctums, where ashes can be placed inside. Sanctums The sanctums are made of granite and can include a front panel engraved with an inscription of your choice. These sanctums can accommodate up to two sets of cremated remains. They are leased for a period of ten years, which is renewable. In advance of the expiry date, the cemetery will contact you and offer an exclusive option to extend the lease. 19
Useful contacts Age UK W: www.ageuk.org.uk T: 0800 678 1174 Bereavement Advice Centre W: www.bereavementadvice.org T: 0800 634 9494 Camden Registrars Camden Town Hall, Judd Street, London, WC1H 9JE W: www.camden.gov.uk/ registrars T: 020 7974 4444 Grief Recovery Method W: www.griefrecoverymethod. com T: 01234 862218 20 Islington and London City Registrars Islington Town Hall Upper Street London N1 2UD W: www.islington.gov.uk/ registrars E: registrars@islington.gov.uk T: 0207 527 6350 SANDS (Stillbirth and Neonatal Death Society) Victoria Charity Centre 11 Belgrave Road London SW1V 1RB W: www.sands.org.uk E: helpline@sands.org.uk T: 0808 164 3332 Islington and St Pancras Cemetery Office contact details: W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 020 7527 8300 The Samaritans The Upper Mill Kingston Road Surrey KT17 2AF W: www.samaritans.org T:116 123 SLOW (Surviving the loss of your world) for bereaved parents in Islington and North London W: www.slowgroup.co.uk T: 07532 423 674
How to find us Islington and Camden Cemetery Service (including Islington and St Pancras Cemetery and Islington Crematorium) 278 High Road East Finchley London N2 9AG W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 0207 527 8300 Opening times Closing times The cemetery and crematorium grounds are open during the following times: February to November 5pm December and January 4pm Christmas Day 2pm Weekdays 7:30am Saturday, Sundays and Public Holidays 9am Christmas Day 10am Islington and St Pancras Cemetery office is open Monday Friday, 9am 4pm excluding public holidays. Getting there Car: the postcode will take you to the main entrance and from there is signposting to guide you around the site. Parking is free throughout the site. operates a free minibus service to transport visitors the site on around weekends and bank holidays. The cemetery Crematorium is approximately 1 front gate. mile from the St note. the cemetery is Please acres you 190 in size therefore should allow extra time to get to your destination, especially if not travelling by car. The Nearest tube: East Finchley on the Northern Line. From there it is approximately 1 mile walk from the main entrance or you can get a bus. Buses: the 263 stops outside off at cemetery Get entrance. Marys Church stop. RC 21
How to find us Trent Park Cemetery Opening times Closing times Cockfosters Road Barnet EN4 0DZ W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 0207 527 8300 Weekdays 7:30am November to April 4pm Saturday, Sundays and Public May to August 6.30pm Holidays 9am September and October 5pm Christmas Day, Boxing Day, New Christmas Day, Boxing Day, New Year s Day 10am Year s Day 4pm Cockfosters Gordon Hill is available throughout the site without charge. Parking Nearest tube: Cockfosters on the Piccadilly Line. It is approximately 500 yards away if you exit the station and turn right. Getting there Car: Trent Park is within easy reach of Junction 24 of the M25. Buses: 298, 299, or 384 Southbury Islington and St Pancras Cemetery Office contact details: W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 020 7527 8300 22 Enfield Town New Barnet Enfield Chase
How to find us Hampstead Cemetery Opening times Pedestrian access closes at: Fortune Green Road London NW6 1DR W: www.iccslondon.co.uk T: 0207 527 8300 Weekdays 7:30am Saturday, Sundays and Public Holidays 9am Christmas Day 10am November to January 4pm February 5pm March 6.30pm April 7.30pm May July 8.30pm August 8pm September 6.30pm October 6pm Closing times Car access is until 3.30pm. Gates locked 4pm all year round. there Buses: 328 or 139 Nearest tube: West Hampstead on the Jubilee Line. The station is approximately 20 mins walk away from the entrance to the cemetery. Parking is available throughout the site without charge. Car: Getting 23
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